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My Unexpected Friend

November 10, 2016 by The Rambler 16 Comments

PC: K. Smith USS Utah Memorial/Oahu/Hawaii

PC: K. Smith USS Utah Memorial/Oahu/Hawaii

Love of Food

I associate food with being a very social activity that can bring many different walks of people that wouldn’t normally be in the same room for a common goal.  To eat.  Nourish the soul with talk and edible goodies.

My career was in the restaurant field.  I did it all.  Small lie…I maybe did some cooking during management training. My brain malfunctions trying to remember amounts of this or that so I’m constantly looking at every line of a recipe. Many times.  Many, many, many times.  When I go rogue and try to ad lib, it’s not always a fantastic moment in my kitchen.  But that story is for a different day.

If you open yourself to it, new friendships you don’t expect to have can happen.   Never knowing how special someone is and their story is too sad a tale.

Never knowing how special someone is and their story is too sad a tale. #friendship #veteran Click To Tweet

Some senses rewind the memory reel of my life

I’m an instant sucker for anyone who makes me think of my grandparents.  INSTANT.  It always starts up a vivid memory reel in my mind of different wonderful times with my grandparents on my mothers side.

SIGHT/TOUCH/SOUND: 

I gravitated toward a older couple who loved coming in for lunch during their trips into town to this or that doctor or whatever errand was needed for them to get out. They sat at our specialty table that was located right in the kitchen, making it that much easier to keep the conversation going during a busy lunch shift. After enough interactions,  I joked with them I was now an unofficial member of the family.

My life changed and everything about them caused me to emotionally latch on when they came in. Losing my grandfather was unexpected. Unexpected as in, thinking that he could live forever and not ever facing the reality of life’s end, I struggled with his loss.  My first day back at work after my grandfather’s death, the couple had come in. We hugged hello, well past the formality of “Table for 2?”, and proceeded to their favorite spot to sit. Man, I needed that hug.

Listening to her fuss over his proud but humble demeanor when he got himself settled and saying hello to this or that employee were parts of the reasons we all came to fall in love with them as much I did.  His wife always made me chuckle when she would roll her eyes at another one of his stories he shared with us.

Some days she kept quiet and listened in on a story for the zillionth time, and some days she let him know.  Their granddaughter married a man all with the help of the ampersand.  My favorite story no matter how many times he told it.  I needed that kind of romanticalness to remind me of love found, having gone through a divorce,

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PC: K. Smith @ USS Utah Memorial/Oahu/Hawaii

My Friend, the Veteran.

His pride runs deep for this country and all military service members.  Being a former Marine in the Korean War , he knows the sacrifice men and women make when they join to become a part of that world.   I’ll admit, my knowledge of the Korean War was zilch and because I wanted to understand him and what happened, I googled what I could to understand better about our American History.   I would ask what I could, probably because I had never tapped into this part of that life with my grandfather who was an WWII Army Veteran and hardly talked about it other than light heartedly joking he had many lady friends to fire up my grandmother.

He speaks when he can amongst certain communities to talk about what happened during and after the Korean War. I will always appreciate the little light he lit for me to tap into this part of the book of our country I really never read that he lived.

Tap into this part of the book of our country I really never read that he lived. #veteran Click To Tweet

Grateful for the people I meet in my life.

When I dated and then married my husband who is in the Army, they were happy for me.  (Even though he was a marine, he still approved).  And suddenly, they became a resource of what life could be like.   His wife and I chatted about some of the challenges and successes they’ve experienced with their time in the military.  Whatever we could pack into their time at lunch with us, we did.

I remember excitedly introducing them to “the love of my life” who they knew by all our conversations, when we ran into them at the mall.  Watching this 80 something year old man, my unexpected friend, shooting the military bleep with a 30 year something active duty man, my new husband, while the wives looked on made my heart smile.

This will be us, one day….me and my Army husband.  Sitting here, many years later, grumbling, loving, listening, not listening.  But together, supportive of what each as done for the other. She, a military spouse, supporting her husband through deployments and service and he, a man who loves and fought for his country.

Happy Veterans Day. 

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PC: My flipping Iphone. USS Missouri/Oahu/Hawaii

 

To all who serve, thank you for your service! 

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Aloha, I’m Selena, The Rambler of My Rambling Thoughts. A storyteller, wife & mother just trying to make it to the next day by hunting for the funny to stay sane! I inhale coffee to keep my brain functioning. I occasionally binge on Netflix. I beg my dog to just leave the toilet paper alone for one second when I’m using the potty, and I pray to all that is holy I can get through a homework session without breaking Google for whatever is making my child smarter for her future. And I humorously navigate my new life as a military spouse without embarrassing my husband wherever the Army sends us. Did I forget anything?

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Comments

  1. Lil sis says

    November 10, 2016 at 11:15 pm

    Good post! Happy Veterans day! I too feel the feels for couples that remind me of Grandma and Grandpa!

    Reply
  2. Kaʻohu Cazinha says

    November 11, 2016 at 1:57 am

    I LOVE this story….mahalo for sharing with us!! What a tribute to that couple and we are both lucky to have them in our lives!!! ❤️❤️❤️

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    • The Rambler says

      November 12, 2016 at 8:49 am

      Thank you ,thank you, thank you!!!! Your parents are such special people! xo

      Reply
  3. Kaʻohu Cazinha says

    November 11, 2016 at 1:58 am

    Am I able to share on fb?

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  4. Kindly Unspoken says

    November 12, 2016 at 7:58 pm

    This was absolutely beautiful! I’m so proud of all my family members who served, but especially my grandfather who served for 25 years in the army. I miss him dearly, so I can definitely relate to this.

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    • The Rambler says

      November 16, 2016 at 7:44 pm

      Thank you, thank you, thank you =) Thank you to your grandfather for his service!!!

      Reply
  5. Jen says

    November 15, 2016 at 11:41 am

    What a lovely post. I would latch onto that couple as well. They sound fantastic. I would have wanted to just sit and listen rather than work. Job well done on honoring our Veterans through your post my friend. They do deserve that honor and more.

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    • The Rambler says

      November 16, 2016 at 7:42 pm

      Thanks Jen!!! =)

      Reply
  6. Janine Huldie says

    November 15, 2016 at 1:21 pm

    What an absolutely beautiful post here for Veteran’s Day. I will share with you that I was shaking my head, yes to being able to relate to the absolute overwhelming grief in losing a grandparent. For me, it was also my grandfather. He passed on back in 1999 on Valentine’s Day. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of him and was a huge loss for me in all honesty as I grew up very close to him. He also served in the army, but in WWII. So, Veteran’s Day always leaves me thinking of him just a bit more (if that was possible). Hugs and thank you for sharing your experiences here.

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    • The Rambler says

      November 16, 2016 at 7:42 pm

      We are so very lucky to be loved by and love such great people in our life!!! Thank you so much Janine for reading this post =)

      Reply
  7. Wendy says

    November 16, 2016 at 7:10 pm

    What a sweet story! And how fortunate you all were to have developed this friendship. What a great Veterans Day — or any day! — post.

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    • The Rambler says

      November 16, 2016 at 7:40 pm

      Thank you so much Wendy =)

      Reply
  8. playdatesparties says

    November 19, 2016 at 8:49 am

    This is a story worth all the happy feels. That is such a sweet and special friendship. Many thanks to your friend and your husband for their service. Our country wouldn’t be what it is today without people like them.

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  9. [email protected] says

    November 19, 2016 at 11:09 am

    Thank you and all the others behind the scenes supporting our people in the military. Some of my best friends are in the service, and I know how hard it can be on the spouses as well. Thank you on Veterans Day and all days #momsterlink

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  10. Kelly Freeman says

    November 22, 2016 at 3:59 pm

    I don’t think that I have been this excited to connect with someone on twitter! I love your blog, it made me smile! I am a fan and now I am a subscriber!

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    • The Rambler says

      November 22, 2016 at 4:35 pm

      Same here!!!! =)))

      Reply

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